It was Sunday morning and our church family was having
“Friend Day.” It was a Sunday that we
had encouraged everyone to invite their friends, who didn’t participate with a
church, to come and join them. We
planned everything that day to make our special guests feel welcome. We decided that we wouldn’t pass an offering
plate that morning because we didn’t want our guests to feel compelled to give—we
simply wanted them to feel welcome.
Instead, we set a box out for the church family to give. I remember making a passing comment to a fellow
church leader later that day, after the service was over, that I wished we
never had to pass the offering plate and he replied, “Why do we?” I don’t remember clearly how it went from
there but that was the last time we took up our general, weekly offering using
offering plates. Today we have secure
offering boxes mounted in our facility and people give using them.
Over the years I’ve reflected often on that Sunday morning and how it changed our church family. I don’t think it’s necessarily wrong to pass an offering plate, we still do for special offerings on special occasions.
I’d like to offer four reasons to encourage church leaders
everywhere to make the same decision we did twenty-five plus years ago, that
is, do away with the weekly offering plate.
Giving was never meant to be an act of corporate worship. In Jesus’ day, religious people loved to tout
their benevolent giving. They wanted
people to see them give and to know how much they were giving. So in His sermon on the mount, Jesus taught
his followers, “When you give to the poor, do not let your left hand know what
your right hand is doing, so that your giving will be in secret;
and your Father who sees what is done in secret will reward you”
(Matthew 6:3-4). Now I don’t think that
Jesus was saying it’s wrong if someone sees you giving. His issue is obviously with the motive behind
their giving. At the very least Jesus is
telling us that giving isn’t meant to be an act of corporate worship, but rather an act of personal worship. It’s
between us and God.
Giving should never be something we compel people to do, and I suggest
that the only reason we pass an offering plate is to make sure people do. To the church at Corinth Paul writes, “Each
one must do just as he has purposed in his heart, not grudgingly or
under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver” (2 Corinthians 9:7). Paul even asked that they take up the offering
he is calling for before he even gets there!
I have been to some churches where all the believers parade down to the
front of the church, row by row, where offering baskets are placed on a table
and they are expected to give. From
personal experience, I tell you the compulsion to give was intense--I didn’t
want to be the only one not putting something in the basket. On one occasion the pastor didn’t feel like we
gave enough so he made us go around a second time. Granted the compulsion to give as the
offering plate comes around is not nearly that great, but nonetheless I have
often felt the urge to give simply because I didn’t want people seeing me not
giving and think I didn’t care.
Not passing offering plates teaches God’s people their responsibility
to give systematically and sacrificially. Some folks may read this and think I’m
suggesting that we shouldn’t teach stewardship.
Please don’t misunderstand—nothing could be further from the truth. I
believe that as God’s people, we should be instructed to use every bit of money
and resource God entrust to us as He instructs.
I believe our stewardship should begin with a tithe to our local
church. I believe as Paul says to the
church at Corinth, my surplus is that I might help those in need, and vice
versa. When a church makes giving an
act of personal obedience and worship, we strengthen that call and responsibility
in the life of a believer. As a church,
we’ve made giving an act of personal worship for over two decades now, and consequently
God’s people have learned their personal responsibility in stewardship. Over the years our church family has always
been amply supplied by the faithfulness of God’s people. We’ve built several buildings debt free; and
though we haven’t always made our budget, we’ve always given more than we’ve
spent. We allocate fifteen percent of
our undesignated giving to missions and support several other mission endeavors
beyond that. On Sundays that we don’t
meet our giving is not affected, because
people give systematically. I say all
that to show that when people understand God’s expectation of stewardship, they
give as God directs whether you pass the offering plate or not.
A most compelling reason to not pass the offering plate is the affect
it has on people who have yet to come to know Jesus. I guess it’s due to TV preachers and
evangelists, but most people outside the church think that all the church wants
is their money. I’ve heard that all my
life as a ministry leader, and it was that sentiment exactly that led me to not want to pass the offering plate that
first “Friend Day.” I can’t tell you how
many times in the last two decades people who are not involved with a church
family have come to visit us, and have been impacted by our commitment to
giving as an act of personal worship.
I’ve told many seekers over the years that God is not interested in
their money but in them; yet at the same time, if they ever came to know Him
they would gladly give Him their all. So
many churches have resorted to telling their guests, “As the offering plate
passes, please don’t feel compelled to give.”
I understand that statement. They
are seeking to say to their guests, “This
isn’t about your money.” However, as
much as we want to communicate that reality, I believe guests often feel
awkward and compelled otherwise. So why
not take that stumbling block away from someone who may be far from God?
So follower of Jesus, I urge you to give. I encourage you to give graciously and
willingly. I challenge you to give
systematically and sacrificially. I exhort
you to give because you love the Lord Jesus, as an act of personal
worship. And church leader, I urge you
to give believers a chance to do all that without passing the offering plate!
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